oprah words - Oprah wrote this about men...

dapat dr email - copy paste je ni...hehe

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deservethen heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not
better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if hehas more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two waystreet. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. "You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. " Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman
prepare.

misi separa berjaya

misi nk celebrate bday en.suami separa berjaya. yg x berjaya ialah plan utk masak2..hehe, semalam blk ofis lmbat, singgah kat kedai barang basah...benda yg dicari telah habis, jadi mood utk memasak sudah lari..hukhuk.

balik rumah tgk en.suami dah ada kat rumah, alamak!! cemaner nak sorok pezen dia ni..iskk!! masuk je rumah smbil bw paper bag dgn selamba shj, dia x perasan pun, hehe. lepas slm peluk cium en.suami, terus suh dia siap2...mkn kat luar je lah.

herm, so instead of candle light dinner di rumah, aku just treat him ke secret recipe shj. mkn2 di sana. balik dr secret recipe, aku wat xtahu je kat dia...dia tgk tv, aku masih dlm bilik. aku letak pezen kat atas tilam..and aku kuar bilik tgk tv sesama ngan dia.

masuk tido...dia surprise tgk pezen tu, dia mmg igtkan xder pezen pasal dah belanja mkn td. hehe. and aku suka sgt sbb dia suka hadiah tu...

note: wpun separa berjaya tp aku yakin it was a memorable bday celebration for him..sbb ni kali pertama dia celebrate bday, and to make it more special...diraikan setelah bergelar suami...diraikan bersama isteri tercinta!! how sweet.

en.suami oh en.suami

akhirnya....aku dah pun beli sesuatu sbg hadiah bday utk en.suami, hehe. xderlah mahal pun, xtahu la dia suka atau tak...tp nak paksa jugak supaya dia suka - bley? hikhik.

petang nnti nk g beli kek, gi beli barang basah...mlm ni nk masak!! hoyeyyy...nak candle light dinner ler kununnnn. ahahha. apebenda nk masak pun xtau ler...nasib la en.suami oii dpt isteri mcm gini, hehe.

note: batuk2 aku ni masih x hilang lg. spoil betul la kalo mkn mlm nnti terbatuk2...x lomantik lah kan. huhuuuu

harus bg apa yer?

en.suami x lama lg bakal menyambut ulangtahun kelahiran nya. da x lama, 15 july ni dah. yet aku belum decide nak hadiahkan apa utk dia. teruk betul isteri muhammad redzuan ni yer...huhu.

ni 1st time la aku sambut hari lahir dia since kiteorg kenal..hehe.

aku duk tgh fikir2 lagi ni....nak bg apa kat dia ek??

hermm....

kawan-kawan x mahu lawan...

huihhhhh...giler lama x jenguk sini!!! huhuhuhu.....

terkejut bila baca citer dr kawan2..i feel sorry for not being together ngan kawan2 pd masa kawan2 dlm kesusahan dan kesedihan. ralat sgt rasa. tp personally, aku ni nak sgt duk bersama2 mendengar luahan hati kawan2..susah senang suka duka segala..

skrg bila dah bergelar isteri, masa utk kawan2 jd sgt terhad. lagilah bila connection to tenet ni da xder. umah skrg belum masuk tenet lg...harapkan kat ofis je..ofis ni pun, kengkadang ok..kengkadag x ok..huhu.

utk kawan2 yg sedang dlm musibah, diharapkan anda semua tabah dan kuat menempuhi dugaan hidup ni. byk2 sabar yer.

setakat ni saje lah dulu..len kali ada masa akan mengepost lagi....huhu.